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Ah, the joys of being a location independent parent – the freedom, the travel, the lifestyle – and the kids. Yes, the kids. As a location independent parent you will probably see more of your kids than the average parent.
When they are young, they will be with you all the time and even when they are older, you may choose to homeschool. That means a demanding schedule for you at the same time as likely running your own business.
So just how feasible is it to run a business from home as a location independent parent? One thing to consider is whether you have the right temperament to do this.
Ask yourself the following questions…
Can you concentrate under any conditions?
Having children in the house means regular interruptions and lots of noise. Children will think nothing of interrupting your work flow so that you can solve a major crisis with a doll or get a toy car running again.
That can really ruin your concentration & flow, so if you’re the kind of parent who depends on absolute quiet to run your location independent business, then it’s best to consider offsite childcare and schooling arrangements for your child.
Can you pick up your thread even after interruptions?
There’s nothing more frustrating than getting almost to the point of resolving the design, writing or other creative issue that has been bothering you, only to have to stop to share out kisses, provide drinks or bandage knees. While these things are a natural part of parenting, they don’t do much to keep your business ticking over.
One solution is to segment you work day so that you work when your child is occupied with an activity. Or, if both parents are location independent, create an on call system so that each of you has some time to work undisturbed. Even if you are the kind of parent who can cope with interruptions and lack of concentration, it’s good to consider options that will help you achieve your work as well as parenting.
A couple of options to consider include:
Use A Buddy System
Another technique that location independent parents can use, is to set aside a period each week to work on mission critical stuff and hand your child over to a trusted relative, friend or childminder.
Buddy up with others in your situation so you can help each other out. The expat forums can also be a goldmine when looking for people to help you in this situation. Location independent parents are also likely to get regular visits from friends and family, most of whom are only too happy to spend quality time with your children while you work.
Close The Door
Sometimes you really need to do something that requires concentration. For those times it’s useful to have a signal that lets everyone know that you are not to be disturbed. This can be as simple as telling children that you have to work and occupying them with something they love while you focus on your deadlines. For kids who can read, putting a ‘do not disturb’ sign on the door can show that it’s important for you to have some quiet time.
The Trade Off
Like anything else, the secret to running your location independent business with kids at “home” is balance.
Most kids want their parents to be constantly available, especially when they are younger. However, most kids will understand that this can’t always happen. As long as you balance work time and kid time, they will understand.
And don’t feel guilty that they sometimes have to do without your attention. Your kids will learn to be more independent and self-reliant and will appreciate their time with you even more.
